(FOR MEN) 6 THINGS TO HAVE BEFORE MARRIAGE

Marriage is so Prescious
Marriage is sweet
Marriage is life changing
Marriage is enjoyable
But it will be all these if laid on a proper foundation.


               However , men this days do not tend to achieve certain behaviours before getting                        married yet, they always wanted to have a successful marriage and family. 

               I bet you for  successful marriage to work out for you, you must work it                   out first

Here are things to know

1. Money
2. Wisdom
3. Being the man in him
4. Self control
5. Trust worthy
6. Love

Money: Yes money,, its one of the basic need for a successful marriage.. Man must have some capital with him before getting into marriage. He Dont wanna be a rude father or wife dependent. He must have capital. Not saying that he should have all the million. No
But atleast to be able to feed his own kids and wife and other things.money matters a lot for a good foundation in marriage.


Wisdom:  they said wisdom is profitable to direct in the scripture. Wisdom is also the principal thing in marriage. Why should he be that kind of dad that doesn't know how to direct the affairs of his family? Why should he expose family matters to neighborhood? Hey! That ain't wisdom. But its good for a man to pray for wisdom before marriage.


Being the man in him: he Dont wanna be that scared dad when your kids expect you to protect them.He should wake the real man in him at a times he might have controversy with the wife. He don't wanna be the husband that keeps malice with the wife because of the bad she did. He should learn to forgive and forget. Being the man also means standing out to prove himself worthy in the community for the welfare of others.


Self control: he should learn to control himself. Despite there are other women out there, he should know the fact that his wife is okay for him and can satisfy him as much as he want.he shouldn't be that street dad who hang around in hotels when the wife and kids are at home.


Trust worthy: trust worthy is one of the major attribute for every men. He should know that his family need to have their trust in him as the bread winner of the family. He should be a man of his words.he don't wanna make a promise he can't keep. Let your kids know quite alright their dad can do it. They Dont wanna be like "I wish my dad could do this"


Love:  Basic thing is love.learn to love is very important for a successful marriage. In fact love covers all errors. Love can't lead to divorce. It brings the family together.